It
can be tough to sit in a classroom and straining yourself to retain as much
information as possible from the lecture. Your mind can start drifting to a
more exciting place in your head or just to the end of class. You can also lose
yourself in your notes and scribble down every word leaving the lips of your teacher/professor
or every item on the board. Either situation is not ideal for learning, as you
can lose important context, information, or not critically digest the
information. You can improve your ability to learn by practicing and mastering
your active listening skill.
What is Active Listening?
Active
listening is a way of listening attentively that keeps you engaged by having
you take an active non-speaking role. When you actively listening, you are fully
immersed and fully concentrated on the information being presented. Instead of
waiting for the information to come to you in passive listening, you are
grasping the information yourself in active listening.
How do You Actively Listen?
There
are three main components you should focus on when engaging in active
listening:
- Neutral mindset ·
- Summarizing ·
- Clarifying
By practicing these components and improve your active
listening skill, you will not just increase your ability to learn, but you can
also increase your conversation skills.
Neutral mindset
A neutral mindset is one without any judgment. People often
entered a classroom having a preconceived expectation of the lesson. Whether
they expected excitement or boredom, it changes the way they absorbed the
information from the lesson and can lead to them missing crucial information. By
withholding your expectation and judgment of the lesson, you will be able to listen
to the lecture with a clear and neutral mind, ready to take in all information
from the lesson.
Summarizing
As
you listening to the lesson with a neutral mindset, the amount of information
can be overwhelming and become difficult to consolidate in your mind. Rather
than trying to retain all the information, you can summarize the information to
just the main ideas and themes. By summarizing the information, you are
actively engaging with information, which will help consolidate the information
to your long-term memory.
Clarify
While
you are summarizing the information, you assumed that what you understood is
exactly what the teacher intended. Unfortunately, our mind does not work
perfectly as we believed. Meanings can be misinterpreted and mistakes can be
made. As such, anytime you are unsure of what you just learned, you should not
hesitate to ask questions to clarify any confusion you may have. Even better,
if your question included a summary of the information relevant to the
question, then you will also let your teacher know that you were listening, and
that will create a positive impression with your teacher.
Practice Practice Practice
Active listening is a skill, as such, it required practice to improve
and maintain. Luckily, you will have plenty of opportunities to practice your
active listening skill. Whether during a class lecture or lending your friends
and family an ear, you can always find a chance to practice your active listening
skill. It will take conscious effort at first to maintain a neutral mindset,
summarizing information as you go, and muster the courage to ask questions, but
as long as you keep up with practicing, active listening will become second
nature, much like riding a bike.